Is a destination wedding the right fit for you?
If you’re considering a destination wedding, you’re in good company. Increasingly, many couples forgo traditional (and expensive) weddings for something more unique at a stunning location. The ease of planning a stress-free celebration appeals to many couples, and destination weddings provide just that, along with the convenience of not having to book several different vendors; many options for saying “I do” abroad allow for everything in one place! And, not only do you get to spread out your wedding over several days as opposed to several hours, but you’re also assured quality time with the people who matter most in an amazing setting to explore together. Destination weddings are also typically far less expensive than traditional weddings.
Deciding who to invite to a destination wedding
Deciding whom to invite to a destination wedding can be a difficult feat, particularly for couples with large family and friend groups. The good news is, there’s no need to limit your guest list just because you’re having a destination wedding. Plenty of couples opt to invite the same guests that they would for a traditional wedding. Many couples who limit invitations consider a post-wedding reception when they return home, though it’s by no means required. Remember: this is your wedding, and it can be shared with whomever you choose.
Destination weddings can range from 2 to over 200 people, though many couples opt for something in the middle—keeping the event intimate and attended by close friends and family. Still, there is no “right” number of guests, other than what your budget can bear and based on who you couldn’t imagine missing your big day. Some couples choose to cover part of their guests’ expenses for a destination wedding. If this is something you are considering, make sure to account for this added cost when deciding whom to invite. If your wedding is adults-only, friends with children that might attend otherwise could decline your invitation. If you truly can’t live without them at your wedding, be sure to include provisions about childcare at your resort.
Choosing between a religious, symbolic or civil ceremony
Choosing your style of ceremony is a big decision, so it’s important to know your options and the differences between each type of ceremony and then choose what’s best for you and your fiancé. Civil ceremonies, otherwise known as legal ceremonies, are legally recognized by the officiating government. These often require certain paperwork and stipulations prior to arrival for the big day.
If you’re interested in having a religious ceremony, many resorts can arrange for a local officiant to marry you. More and more resorts are offering gorgeous, seaside religious venues to say “I do,” so you don’t have to sacrifice the beauty of your locale.
Symbolic ceremonies are often the most popular choice for couples looking to tie the knot abroad. Often a couple is legally married in their home country, and the symbolic ceremony is used to celebrate the amazing union of two people. These ceremonies are not legally recognized in the destination county and require no fuss when it comes to marriage requirements. Whatever you decide, remember to go with whatever feels authentic and right for you as a couple.
'Going green' for your destination wedding
There’s nothing wrong with showing Mother Nature some love during your big day. In the last few years, more and more options for how to 'go green' for your wedding have come available. Between choosing an eco-friendly resort or wearing a pre-worn wedding dress and giving out biodegradable wedding favors or even hosting an entire Green Wedding, there are plenty of ways to do your part in preserving the environment. It’s also good idea to let your guests know if this is the route you’re taking, so they can take part in the cause.
Planning your honeymoon
One of the (many) amazing benefits of a destination wedding is that you likely won’t have to go far to enjoy your dream honeymoon. Still, it’s good to keep in mind that many of your guests may extend their stay after your wedding, so it’s important to consider whether you would be okay running into family and friends while you honeymoon. If you’re looking for more privacy, but don’t want to lose the perks of booking with your resort, many companies will transfer resort credits to their sister properties in different locations. Also be sure to take advantage of any additional perks and savings for your first anniversary return stay!
Planning a group or couple’s excursion
One of the many benefits of getting married in a beautiful destination is being immersed in a new culture amidst breathtaking scenery. The best way to take advantage of your locale’s surroundings is by booking a fun excursion for your guests. Or, plan a romantic day trip with your new spouse as part of your honeymoon! From zip lining through the jungle to setting sail on a sunset cruise, there are a variety of ways to explore your locale with your friends and family.